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While listening to Pozner I've heard the phrase "кто девушку ужинает тот ее и танцует".

Where does it come from?

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    It's might be overkill - especially for the first question, so let's give it a shot, Farrukh! – shabunc Nov 15 at 16:11
  • may I ask, are you being interested in the meaning of the phrase or namely its origin? If the meaning, it's simply a pun. – user907860 Nov 16 at 20:54
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    I am a native speaker. I get the meaning. However, I would be keen on seeing similar idioms. Other thing, good to know, what is the context in which that phrase was used. It seem to be rather sexist. So, which epoch was that? And why the grammar rules were broken for comic effect or the character did not possess good Russian? – Farrukh Normuradov Nov 17 at 9:00
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The phrase comes from a Soviet movie 'Mimino' (1977), and its particular form (both intransitive verbs are used as transitive ones) is a joke (by the movie authors) about typically Georgian imperfectness in speaking Russian (by the movie plot, the character is from Georgia). The phrase was pronounced as an argument in a restaurant and its meaning was: 'the one who's invited a girl for dinner has an exclusive right to dance with her' (Кто пригласил девушку на ужин, тот с ней и будет танцевать). As it often happens with especially catchy phrases from movies, later it started to be used as an idiom (about some other rights).

  • I think it is actually an euphemism for the word meaning "fucks" which is transitive. – Anixx Dec 1 at 12:24
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    There is not this phrase in the 'Mimino' – Elena Dec 1 at 14:53
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The phrase reads "The one who dinners the girl is the one who dances her".

Obviously it is intended as euphemism, where words "eats" and "fucks" were replaced with more benign "dinners" and "dances". And of course, you can fuck a girl but "dance a girl" looks funny.

  • I woulds say "feeds" and "fucks" – SimonE Dec 2 at 7:52

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